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Intertwined

A few months ago a friend of mine – someone who travels a lot for work – sent me this message from his blackberry as he waited to board a flight:

Dawn is breaking. A young man a few rows down, nondescript except for a small, almost hidden, Kippah  just wrapped Tefillin and began his morning prayers. He covers his head with his Tallit. Oblivious to the physical world he is immersed in a different place. He takes 3 steps back, sways and moves forward again as he silently recites the Amidah. Surprisingly few people stare. Maybe he really is in a different place. Really beautiful.

What takes my breath away even more than the wording (which was elegant and eloquent) was how this anonymous davening stranger captured my friend’s attention and imagination, which in turn caught mine. Even more, that this stranger did it without meaning to and in fact to this day may not realize that he did.

Like me, this friend of mine is on his own Jewish journey. Our destinations may not lead us to the same place and our paths are distinctly different. But he and I both are excited by our mutual travels. Almost every week, our families get together and we have a chance to compare notes, share what we’ve learned, bounce ideas around.

It reminds me of two threads that keep crossing, only to swing way out in the other direction before turning back inward to cross again. We go out during the week, do our thing, meet back on Shabbat and reconnect, and then keep rolling through to the following week. In some ways his movement has kept me on track, and I think I’ve had the same effect for him.

His email was one such point of connection. It got us both thinking and – although we didn’t intend it – set us on our own paths.

This week, on my desk, sits an old and worn set of tefillin once owned by someone I knew and respected. And on his desk sits a set that is completely new, the shine barely off the thick straps that still creak when they are wound. We are both looking for a way to take our place next to that anonymous young man in the airport, to find our way to that “different place” he found so effortlessly.

On the mornings when time and confidence combine to allow me to try on this new habit, I look down at the winding on my arm and realize that the overlapping strands of leather are a perfect reminder of our experiences as Jews: sometimes parallel, sometimes overlapping, and always binding.

Connecting us to God, and to each other.

Dawn is breaking. A young man a few rows down, nondescript except for a small, almost hidden, Kippa  just wrapped Tifillin and began his morning prayers. He covers his head with his Tallit. Oblivious to the physical world he is immersed in a different place. He takes 3 steps back, sways and moves forward again as he silently recites the Amidah. Surprisingly few people stare. Maybe he really is in a different place. Really beautiful.

2 Responses to “Intertwined”

  1. Kizz says:

    You’ve probably already been alerted to this but in case you haven’t I thought it was relevant to the discussion:
    http://gothamist.com/2010/01/21/jewish_prayers_not_bomb_scare_diver.php

  2. Dwayne Holst says:

    Shalom Leon!

    What a beautiful story and so beautifully painted! I find myself especially touched as I know that young man as I am one of HE. I travel 50% and thus find myself wrapped in Tefillin and Tallit very often at airports. And even though many have chapels and some even synagogues (nice one at JFK in NY! even has a mechitza ;-) most of the time I find a little corner out of the way and I DO move somewhere else. The Tallit really does transform into a spiritual cloak or the classic wings that wrap around us and hold us close and shut the world out!

    Something “magical” or “transformational” DOES happen!!!! and even though I do not daven with the intention of inspiring others I can only pray that at some point it has.

    Toda!!!

    Dwayne

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